Sunday, March 2, 2014

Stitch 'n Bitch


"Stitch 'n bitch"
When a group of people,
Usually women,
Get together
Eat and drink 
And knit and sew and 
Work on crafty projects

It was lovely to watch
Women working on 
Patchwork quilts
And curtains
And bags
Made from pretty fabrics

How delightful to participate
For one afternoon 
In this world
Of feeding and project making 

The whir and rattle of 
Sewing machines 
The chatter of women
And new mothers
Their three tiny babies
Hanging out in basinets 
Or on blankets on the floor  
The eldest of the three
Six months old
Reveling in her newly acquired skill of 
Rolling Over
You can almost see joy in her face
When gravity, and a little effort,
Changes her view of the world 

Yet understanding with complete clarity 
This is not my world 
I have no desire to be a mother
To cradle
And rock a little one to sleep 
To discuss feeding habits 
Or diaper changes
Or what foods to eat to produce more breast milk  
Or where to seek useful information 
On all of the above 

Colouring a mandala 
And knowing
All of our stories, choices, and worlds
Are different
And that we all contribute to the vast 
Patchwork of life
With our own forms of creation

The end. 

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